Another thanks giving day arrived. It is one of my favorite holidays. I love that the night comes fast and the warmth of the house in the evenings from late November leading up to Christmas is my definition of peace. I just love the glitter and the warmth of this season.
This year, especially had an experience of coming back to life from a bad fall I had earlier in the summer while visiting India. I was bed ridden with multiple injuries and needed help for the trivial things in life we take for granted; that one should be able to do bare minimum to lead a life such as going to bathroom, eating food and taking bath. It was as if I was passing through a dark tunnel hoping for light at the end of it. But even in that circumstances, I was able to look at things with gratitude. There were couple of things that I was grateful for. First and foremost, I did break some bones and my back, but my intellect was intact. I got spared from the worst that could have happened. It also meant staying with my parents for a longer duration. Though I am bed ridden I know my presence will make them happy, especially knowing that I would
Possibly make a complete recovery.
At the start of the summer, my dear son got into an accident while
playing soccer and broke his leg which needed a immediate surgery. I rushed to be with his side and to support him get through his post surgery days. At the hospital, the next day, I felt a peace filling my mind. I told my son that I am happy to be on his side and that though it is sad that he had a broken tibia which needs a long recovery process, he is alright. He will walk and can even play soccer if he chooses to do so. Complete recovery is possible. I was with full of gratitude during the hospital time. Hospitals are often places filled with people who are hoping against hope knowing recovery is a slim
chance. My heart filled with compassion and empathy.
As I reflect past few months of my life, I feel that I have been lucky and blessed in many ways. Coming to US was a decision made by my husband long ago. I followed him to build a life for my son. Through the years, I have questioned my decision to move here, trying to find meaning in life in an unknown place and missing home and people back in India. The American dream to life, liberty and pursuit of happiness was something very alien to me but as I work here among kids and parents who build their life here in this country… I see how much this country can offer. I meet immigrant parents who pin their hopes on their offspring and work hard to give them a better life. I am grateful for all the experiences life has given me here in this country, good or bad.
We may not celebrate thanks giving the traditional way- with turkey, pumpkin pie and cranberry sauce with close family gathered around the dinning table. But we have friends who have become family and we do claim a part in the bigger pie - to achieve our own American dream and to make this place our home.